Date Night – McCormicks & Schmick

*The following post is sponsored all opinions are my own*

When is the last time you dated your spouse? Thankfully I can answer that question with the following answer… last month! As many of you know, last month we celebrated our 6 year anniversary.

My personal goal is to a have a monthly date with my husband because as parents we are naturally in Mommy & Daddy mode 24/7. This month with the help of our friends at McCormick & Schmick’s we are able to have a nice relaxing HOT dinner alone.

Often times I’m so busy getting the kids settled, hands washed, food on plates, and drinks in cups that by the time I sit down my food is lukewarm.

On top of having a wonderful HOT meal, I learned that it was National Wine Day! We were able to try a 2012 Jordan Cabernet. It was dry but tasty. Next up appetizers!

JoColby enjoyed the Shrimp Kisses/ Pepper Jack Cheese/ Bacon Wrapped/ Fire Roasted Corn Salsa/ Onion Strings.

Being the Maryland girl that I am, I normally would not go for a crab cake, BUT our waiter Keith insisted that it was delicious and it was! The Fire Corn Salsa topping was a delicious bonus. Next up the main course.

JoColby had the Dry Rubbed Black Angus Bone In Rib Eye 20oz cooked MEDIUM and in his exact words ” It was cooked to perfection, melted in my mouth, no A1 needed, one of the best steaks I’ve ever had!”

I opted for the McCormick’s Trio ( Crab Cake, Grilled Shrimp and Grilled Salmon with red pepper white cheddar potatoes and broccoli) and added a side of Crab Legs! It was soooo delicious and to top it off, I added the Lobster Mashed potatoes!

I’m not sure how to explain the deliciousness of this meal but can we go back to the fact that they cut my crab legs open for me!

Everything was so delicious and then we had dessert, talk about stuffed.

We wanted to try the Strawberry Ice Cream Pie and it was superb and the granola crust was on point.

Last night we just wanted to focus on each other and enjoy a delicious meal and that mission was accomplished. Shout out to our amazing village! My SIL held us down for a few hours, I am always so grateful for our support system because being a parent is HARD.

My goal is to continue our monthly date night series. When should be go next? Thanks again to our friends at McCormick and Schmick at Crab Tree Valley Mall for the delicious meal. I want to hold each of you accountable to plan a date night with your spouse and tag me with #HWTHDate I’m looking forward to the movement. Until next time….

XO,

Meka

Mother’s Day throughout the years 2010-current

I’ve been blessed to celebrate Mother’s Day for 9 years! And each year I have a tradition to coordinate outfits with my loves so today I’m sharing my pictures and things I’ve learned as a mom throughout the years.

Year ONE

This was my very first Mother’s Day and although this is the ONLY picture I have captured of us, I remember it like it was yesterday. JoColby was deployed Elle’s first year of life ( sound familiar?!) so it was just the 2 of us. We wore Pink and White. This is the year I learn how strong I truly was and how thankful and blessed it is to become a MOM.

Year TWO

Toddler Elle and I wore black and white this year. This was the year that challenged my relationship with JoColby as well as helped me grow as a woman. I wore a ring on my left hand because I so desperately wanted to be married, however things weren’t perfect and we were still growing. This is the point where we decided to be the best parents for Elle.

Year THREE

Navy and floral was my theme, unfortunately I didn’t capture the floral shoes I was wearing to coordinate with Elle BUT check out the hand!!! Yes newlywed, JoColby and I worked through our differences and grew to love each other more than ever! This is the year I learned that prayer really works and to NEVER settle if it’s meant to be God will work it out.

Year FOUR

Denim was the theme and we welcomed a new family member. Young Maveric Ellis joined us and he was such a joy to our life. Elle’s new best friend and my first son! This is the year that I realized I could love more and step out on faith!

Year FIVE

There’s NO place like HOME! This year I took a road trip with the kiddos solo to visit HOME aka Baltimore and we stayed with my sister. In true Bmore fashion our theme was Orioles gear. This was the year that I learned that I could truly multitask and take on anything! I had the fashion truck at this point and balancing 2 kids and a husband I thought life was perfect as it was… Boy was wrong!

Year SIX

And then there were 3! This was my most trying year. I’ve never been so scared and confused as a mom, until we had Jagger. Many of you know that Jagger was born 2 months early and stayed in the NICU for a month. This year I was too exhausted but very blessed so I decided PJ’s were the best option for us! We pretty much stayed inside until Jagger was older but we had a ball. JoColby cooked dinner and there was love all over because we were so happy that Jagger was Home. This was the year that pushed my faith to the limit and I learned to pray stronger than ever before.

Year SEVEN

One time for the culture! This was the year of many first. We took the kids to Disney World, we celebrated love, we celebrated US and I believe this is when I coined the term #HWTH, Hanging With The Harrells. I truly thought our family was really complete here. But as we know, I was wrong!

Year EIGHT

Now this was the year of completion. We welcomed Axel Roman to the family and we went with a more relaxed theme of Grey tees with different phrases in them. This is the year I truly grew. JoColby was deployed the entire year and I gave birth without him. This year tested every emotion, every ounce of my strength and sanity. But at the end of it all, God showed me how strong I am as a wife, mother and woman! There’s seriously nothing that I can’t do and I learned that last year. I also learned my value, and decided to step out on faith and started my blog. This was the year of absolute GROWTH.

Year NINE

Pastels and pinks! I’m happier than ever and I feel like this is truly OUR year! God has been showing out every step of the way. We are almost settled in our new location, finding the perfect house for our family and I am working in the BEST location with so much support and growth opportunities. I can’t thank God enough for each lesson throughout the years.

Thank you so much Momtourage for sticking around with each and every journey of my life. If it wasn’t for me becoming a Mother the Momtourage would not be here. I started this group after Elle was born and I’m happy to still have you all around. Stay tuned for more events, oppourtunites to grow and celebrate each other together! Until next time……

XO,

Meka