Momtourage Monday: Military Wife, Blogger and Photography Momma

1. How do you define Momtourage? Momtourage is your Go-to mom group. A unique group of ladies that support you no matter what, relate to you and lift each other up. Without judgment or shaming. A place where you can feel safe, be yourself and open up about this crazy roller coaster called motherhood. Oh and they also get together for those mommy play dates, let’s not forget about that. 

2 How do you balance Motherhood? With Grace, definitely with Grace. But honestly it’s not always there. I have to always be reminded to take care of myself first. Mentally, physically and emotionally. Those things are key for you to be a better mom, wife, friend… But trying to have it all together and keeping it up can be really overwhelming and you lose sight of the most important things. So yes, Grace is always my hero to Balance motherhood.

3. What is your mommy must have item? My Baby Carrier! My god, what would I do without it. Life changing for sure. Can’t imagine motherhood and no baby carrier. You can get so many things done while you baby-wear. It is simply amazing. I’ve traveled, breastfed, cleaned, cooked, shopped using it and I love it. Now my toddler wants to walk all the time but for breastfeeding and napping on the go it is my life saver. 

4 What is your Momtourage story? Well, let’s see… I’m a mommy of two kiddos. A 7 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. Since the beginning my husband has been hands on with house chores and with the kids. We always say it’s all about team work. That’s how we define our relationship and parenting. But when Kayden my eldest was 2 he decided to join the Military, something I was against since the beginning. But he went through with it anyways and I just followed along to keep my family together. (But let me tell you it was the best decision we have ever made because it has lead us to we’re we are now.) So he left for basic training and I remember being terrified about the thought of staying alone with my 2 year old son. All I could think of was that I didn’t know how to be a parent without my partner. How would I balance work, home, parenting and everything in between on my own. Soon after he left I learned that I could and I felt so proud about myself. I became so much stronger and independent and felt like the world couldn’t stop me. After he finished Basic Training we were stationed in NC and moved out of Puerto Rico. I left my job, my friends, my family and everything I knew to start a new life with the man I loved and give a better quality of life to our child. Only 2 weeks in and he got orders to Deploy to Afghanistan the next month. It all happened so quickly. Again I would have to handle everything on my own but this time in an unknown place where I didn’t know anybody. Everyone advised me to go back to Puerto Rico until he finished his tour but I decided to stay. I stayed because I didn’t want to run away from my fears and I wanted to grow as a woman and mother. And I definitely did. I even did things I never thought I could do. Right when he got back from his deployment I got pregnant with my second child, something everyone predicted hahah! I had been staying at home with Kayden only for a year so transitioning from 1 kid to 2 kids and staying at home all day with a toddler (4) and a breastfeeding on demand newborn was a struggle. When Mia was 6 months old I decided I needed a place to share my motherhood journey, my love for photos and everything I liked to help with my anxiety. My husband suggested Instagram, got me my first DSLR and rest is history. I’ve created my own little platform since then and I love connecting with other moms in the community. It has helped me to be much more open, social and take on new adventures. We are In the civil world now, loving every minute of it and better than ever. 

Be sure to check out more of Vil and her amazing family Here

Thank you so much Vil for sharing your story! As always we hope these stories encourage, or inspire other moms and moms to be!

Until next week….

XO,

Meka

Spring Fashion

I’m seriously ready for warmer weather, why are we still dealing with SNOW 😩 Sunday I got to shoot with my favorite photographer in RDU, Erin and boy was it cold, but the pictures turned out pretty dope!

Bell sleeves are so in, and thanks to Target’s A New Day line I’m able to have a nice style at a low cost! I paired this super cute wrap dress with theses statement earrings from Charm City Noir

And I added another pop for color with my new crossbody from Madewell. I just love monogrammed items so of course I had to get the gold foil.

This crossbody is really going to be seen a lot, I’m so excited to pair it with my favorite spring looks. It comes in additional colors see here.

The thing I love about this wrap dress is that it compliments so many different body types!

The classic stripped blue and white helps it to be the perfect addition to my capsule wardrobe this spring!

So here’s to S P R I N G, May the bugs be less aggravating , and your allergies nonexistent! Until next time….

XO,

Meka

Momtourage Monday : Fashionable Mom killing it!

1. How would you define Momtourage?

The word Momtourage makes me think of a group of mom friends that you can share your ups and downs with and support one another. 

2. How do you balance Motherhood?

To try and balance motherhood, I try my best to stay organized and plan ahead.  That really only works 50% of the time because something always comes up with kids.  I’ve gotten better at adjusting at the last minute.  I really try to do the best I can with any obstacle that comes my way.

3. What is your Mommy must have item?

My mommy must-have item is a cute small cross-body bag. My cross-body bag is strapped to me most of the day. My phone, wallet keys, diaper, and fruit snacks are always in my bag.  If I carried a big purse I would probably leave it somewhere.

4. What is your Momtourage story? I am a full-time family fashion blogger.  My content is primarily based on my girls and their style. Working with your kids for a business can present some challenges. I try not push them to do anything they don’t want to do but at the same time, I have deadlines.  I try my best to keep our projects fun and simple.  Both of the girls are pretty good at cooperating to get things done.  The promise of cookies and ice cream also help.

As far as struggles as a mom, finding time for myself has been a challenge.  Since my “job” is to blog mainly about them and in addition to being a SAHM, it can be hard to separate work and do something for myself.  Weeks will go by I haven’t had any time to myself. This year I’m taking more time for myself on a regular basis. It’s important that we have a moment to ourselves.

Motherhood can be challenging but I just try to be the best mom I can be, not what others think I should be.

Thank you so much Trina for sharing your story! Be sure to check out Trina and her beautiful family here! As always we hope these stories encourage, or inspire other moms and moms to be!

Until next week….

XO,

Meka

Museum Of Ice Cream 🍦

If you haven’t heard the hype, you’re truly missing out! Yesterday I had the chance to venture out to Miami to visit the Museum of Ice Cream. Yes you read correctly, there is a museum dedicated to Ice Cream and it’s a blogger and photographers dream.

Just as you’ve all seen on Instagram, the rooms exude color and the vibe is fun. The museum is currently located on Collins as many of you know, they just closed the one in LA, aside from these locations there is also a San Francisco location.

As a lover of all things PINK, I was in heaven when I walked inside. First we were greeted by the Ice Cream tarot reader and she was a true character.

After meeting the tarot reader we had to come up with our “ice cream” names so I conveniently used the name “Sprinkle Meek” as in sprinkle me…. Cheesy perhaps but it was all in good fun.

The sprinkle pool was as cool as I’ve seen on Instagram. This is the only timed location, since it’s so popular. They gave us about 2 minutes to snap away and enjoy before the next group entered.

Oh and if you’re wondering, no the sprinkles are not real. They are plastic replicas actually. Still fun and great for photo opps.

I felt like a kid again! I was so amazed by the colors, the staff was so friendly and engaging. Be sure to come with a sweet tooth because you get to indulge in some delicious desserts like key lime ice cream cones, chocolate covered bananas and melted ice cream drink, which literally taste like MELTED ICE CREAM 🍦

The hands on exhibits made for a fun adventure and there were several children in the museum young and OLD.

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Although the tickets were more than I would normally pay for a museum,($38 a pop) I feel like the experience was totally worth it!

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If you’re able to snag some tickets I would highly recommend doing it ASAP, they sell out daily and they are limited to 2,000 tickets per day!

This just reminds me of how there are so many ways to make money out here! Utilize your creativity and always think outside the box. Seriously a freaking pop up museum of all ICE CREAM! This has been such a successful and innovative business venture and believe me there will be many other pop ups in the near future!

Be sure to check out the gift shop as well!

You can score anything from Sprinkle crowns, socks, a glass backgammon set to whip cream!

If you get a chance to visit be sure to comment below or tag me in Instagram! Until next time…..

XO,

Meka

Exploring University Place!

Last month the kids and I got some early shopping in, as we ventured to University Place in Chapel Hill. I’ll admit, this was my first time visiting but it didn’t let me down. The kids were thrilled to check out the stores and I was curious of what they had to offer.

Our first and LONGEST stop included Glee Kids! I have never in my life stayed in one store with 4 kids for so long. The store offered a variety of items from clothing , jewelry, shoes and TOYS.

Jagger and Maveric were all about the toys, while Elle was all about the fashion! They offer a variety of kids clothings such as Tea Collection, Hatley, Native Shoes and so many brands you’ll love.

How adorable is this fury pink coat! I wish I could find this in my size.

Elle was in heaven, the clothes, accessories, and even the cute stuffed animals were right up her alley.

Maveric found the coolest toy called Zipes and he has been playing with this since we visited.

Our next favorite spot was Burlington Shoes

As always Elle went straight toward the boots. She gets her love of clothes from me and her love of shoes from her dad. I’m pretty sure we’ve created a mini fashion monster.

I found the perfect pair of flats for work. They are super comfy and these black flats can be dressed up or down.

Not to mention good quality leather at a great price.

We were also able to make a quick stop at Kitchen Works. Initially I thought this was a place where I could find items for myself, however I was WRONG.

In true “Mommy Style” we went straight towards the kids section. They had so many cool items from truck themed spoons to amazing lunch bags. I literally had to pull the kids out of the store.

So we pretty much left with items for the kids to eat with and a sweet night light for Elle. Moms I warn you to go ALONE. Who would think kids would love a kitchen store so much.

Before leaving to head back to Winston, we were able to take a sneak peek inside the Kidzu Children’s Museum right before they closed which for your info is at 5pm. I was able to grab some info about their memberships because my kids absolutely love museums and a membership is a gift that gets more bang for your buck!

If you’re ever in the Chapel Hill area be sure to check out our recommendations, you won’t be disappointed! Until next time…..

XO,

Meka

Fall Family Fashion

Even though I was born in the summer, FALL is one of my favorite season’s!  Thanks to our friends at Tea Collection the kids are ready for cooler days.  I really love dressing the kids in coordinating styles.

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As we all know Elle is the fashionista of our crew, she has been dressing herself since age 3!  She has always loved clothes and especially shoes, my husband and I have are constantly encouraging Elle to express her style and be confident with herself.  How CUTEEEE is this cape Elle is wearing! I wish I could get one in my size.

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Maveric is so care free and energetic, I love nice slim fitted pants for him and layers are key to success when dressing boys!

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Since Jagger is in his independent TERRIFIC 2’s stage I love comfy athletic gear for him, because he’s either in mud, throwing rocks, tinkering or constantly running.

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At this stage Axel’s role is to just be the hunky chunk of cuteness that he does so well, and I’m not just saying that because he’s my kid! Comfy sweats, a cute little sweatshirt paired with our favorite moccs are our go to this fall.  I just love being a mom to these 4, they are a ball of fun!

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As for me, nothing beats a nice white tee, ripped denim, a cute duster and comfy block heel boots!  I absolutely love the florals in this cute duster from Pink Blush it’s the perfect mommy look that’s also functional when you have to chase after a VERY active two year old.

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These are just a few of our staple looks for fall, besides boots what are your go to pieces?

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Until next time….

XO,

Meka

Mommy Uniform

Mommy Uniform…. we all have them, weather it’s your favorite leggings paired with the perfect tee, your favorite workout gear that you wear when you’re not working out or it’s your favorite dress with your most comfy pair of flats.  Today I’m sharing my uniform for this weekend.

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A simple black dress paired with some cool kicks !  This bodycon is super comfy and what I love about it most, is that it’s easy access for nursing Axel! Snag one hereFullSizeRender (21)

I always love to wear a nice denim jacket or in this case a chambry because I am ALWAYS cold!  I found a similar version here  Some how I managed to pair an entire outfit from Forever 21… yes I still love finding pieces there regardless of my age.  Even the baseball cap and choker came from there.  Oh well I absolutely love cool caps, especially when you’re having a bad hair day!  In my case I just did a good conditioning last night and I didn’t want to put a lot of stress on my hair so I threw on a hat and pulled my hair through the strap.  Take your pick of cool satin baseball caps here 

FullSizeRender (25) Lastly a good mommy uniform has to have some cool kicks!  I was able to snag these for only $19.99 during a recent Reebok sale! Currently they are $39.97, still a good price in my eyes!  Check them out here

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My style is more about COMFORT! Weather I’m chasing after my boys, driving Elle to practice or hitting the road, this look will never let me down! Stay tuned for the next Mommy Uniform share.  What’s in your closet? Be sure to share you Uniform must haves below!  Until next time……

XO,

Meka

 

Let the Church say…..

Sunday I was on a mission to make it to church on time!  I haven’t been to church since having Axel so Saturday night I made up my mind that we were going to church in the morning.  I set my alarm clock so that I had enough time wake up, nurse Axel, do my hair, do Elle’s hair, get all 3 boys dressed, grab some breakfast on the go for the kiddos, hop in the car and make it to church ON TIME!  That was my goal Saturday night… fast forward to Sunday morning!

I woke up at 7:30 and drifted back to sleep some how then I woke up again at 9am, thanks to my back up “get yourself together so you can leave the house” alarm.  Church started at 10 and by the time I did everything I mentioned above it was 10:10.  Ummmm I’m not sure how that happened but I told the kid’s there was no point in going to church now because we would get there at 10:30 and that’s not cool.  But for some reason I decided to look on Instagram and there was my sign… Church didn’t start until 10:30!!!!!

Well needless to say Momma we MADE IT, on time and the kids enjoyed themselves.  See I almost gave up, but this time social media came through in our favor.  We even managed to have an impromptu photo sesh afterwards #winning. 18595415_10156050503858368_2679487757354792922_o

Well that was my Sunday summed up! How do you get your squad ready, out the door and on time?  Until next time…

Meka

DIY Patched Denim

My oldest child and ONLY daughter Elle and I have a lot in common, and one of those “things” would be our connection in being creative!  She loves to do DIY activities with me so we got together and came up with a DIY Mommy and Me craft for our friends at The Craft Bar  take a look at what we came up with below! Tag us if you get around to trying this out with your little one(s)

Items Need:

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  • An Iron
  • Patches of your choice
  • Denim jeans or any denim item
  • Heavy duty glue gun

Place your patches in various locations on the jeans as seen below

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With adult supervision of course, I let Elle iron the patches allowing the heat to sit for at least 30 seconds.  Keep in mind you may have to go over each path in a circular motion to avoid burning the items.

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We suggest wearing after 24 hours and if any patches appear to become undone simply try ironing again or following up with the hot glue gun!

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Style and Enjoy!  This DIY was so much fun and super easy I am going to make a jacket for myself! Stay tuned and until next time…..

XO,

Meka